Triangular Theory of Love
Intimacy,
passion, and commitment are the three cornerstones of the triangular theory of
love. According to this theory, all these parts must match up in order to have
a satisfying relationship. If one person is more committed than the other, the
relationship will have problems. This theory suggests that both people must
have the same level of commitment, passion, and intimacy. It also adds that
each component must be expressed and acted out. If you only feel intimate but
you don't show intimacy, you are not a very intimate person. You need to put
all components into action.
- INTIMACY- This is the part of love that makes you feel close to your partner. It involves feelings of trust, security, and self-disclosure. It usually develops over time as people get to know each other better. Intimacy makes you feel comfortable talking to your partner and opening up to him or her.
- PASSION-
This is the feeling of being physically attracted to your partner and
having the desire to express it sexually. It doesn't mean that you have to
express your passion sexually, but usually some physical desire is
present. Passion is that feeling of always wanting to be near your partner
and always thinking about your partner. Passion usually characterizes the
first stages of a relationship. Passion can, however, be similar to
infatuation or lust.
- COMMITMENT-
This is the decision you make to be loyal and faithful to your partner in
many ways. It involves openly and honestly deciding that you both want to
strive to have a satisfying and lasting relationship. This involves
planning for the future, working out problems, and consciously not doing
things that you think would hurt your partner.
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